I arrived in Australia in June 2019 filled with hope and excitement, eager to begin a new chapter with my soon-to-be husband, Michael. Together, we chose Australia over my home country of the United States because, between us, we had only one parent remaining, and being close by to support elders in our family was important. We settled on a rural property with my mother-in-law and immediately began establishing our life together.
While awaiting work eligibility, I spent my days helping to clear land, build a cabin, while learning the practical skills that country life required. Our days were simple but rewarding, spent building a home, tending the land, and becoming part of a new family and community.
Once our off-grid, solar-powered cabin was completed, we moved in and began working towards a self-sufficient lifestyle by creating paddocks, establishing large gardens and purchasing livestock. At the same time, we had commenced construction of an American-style barn.
In 2020, the COVID-19 pandemic disrupted those plans. Before I had obtained permanent residency, I was instructed by Home Affairs to leave Australia and return to the United States within two weeks. Having already sold my business, home, vehicle, and most of my possessions before relocating, returning to the United States at the age of 52 was both unexpected and deeply challenging.
After arriving back in Massachusetts in early 2021, I turned my frustration into determination. I contacted elected representatives, ambassadors and government officials across both countries, sharing our circumstances and seeking assistance. Although most appeals received no response, Michael was able to visit me under a limited travel exemption, and we were married during the pandemic in a small family ceremony.
A turning point came when a local Senator for Victoria contacted us directly to ask how she could assist. While she made no guarantees, she personally raised our case with Home Affairs. Within 24 hours, my temporary partner visa was approved. Unfortunately the Senator passed away in 2022, and I never had the opportunity to thank her personally, but I remain profoundly grateful for her kindness and support.
Although there were still additional requirements and significant costs to navigate, I was eventually able to return to Australia where Michael and I continued building our life together.
The second chapter of my Australian journey began when I started seeking employment after my return. In August 2022, I joined the Catholic Diocese of Sandhurst as a temporary employee to coordinate the Diocesan Assembly held in February 2023. This role introduced me to a remarkable faith community and provided opportunities to contribute meaningfully to the life of the Diocese. After the Assembly I was appointed by the Bishop as a permanent employee.
Michael and I were married in St Augustine’s Catholic Church, Myers Flat, by Father Stephen Bolling in November 2024.
As I reflect on the journey that brought me to Australia, I am filled with gratitude. This week, I became a citizen of this beautiful country. The support of family and friends in both the United States and Australia, the encouragement of my colleagues and parish communities across the Diocese of Sandhurst, and the steadfast support of my husband have all shaped this journey.
Today, citizenship represents far more than a legal status. It signifies belonging, community, faith and purpose. I feel deeply blessed, and I am grateful to call Australia home. I feel that I am exactly where God has called me to be.
“Now, therefore, you are no longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God” (Ephesians 2:19).
Words by Leslie Cooper
